One of the oldest laws in the world is known as “lex
talionis” or “equal retaliation.” Oddly enough, this law had a purpose which
was to restrict unlimited revenge.
This law is found three times in the Old Testament passages of Exodus 21:24, Leviticus 24:20, and Deuteronomy
19:21.
It was understood to be “and eye for an eye” or a “tooth for
a tooth” by allowing the law, judges and courts to render the appropriate
judgment, restitution and punishment. It was never intended for individual
retaliation.
So, if that is the case, then why did Jesus say in Matthew 5:39,
“But, I tell you, do not resist an evil
person….”? The Greek verb “resist” means “to set one’s self against, to oppose” or most closely means “take legal action against.” Did Jesus
really say “don’t” resist? Did he literally mean that? What exactly is he
saying here?
At first, it sounds like Jesus is saying we should just stand
there and get pummeled physically and mentally by all that these evil people
can dish out on us. Everybody knows we must resist injury. Jesus says that
after we've been hit on one cheek, we should turn the other. We'll
seemingly get killed if we take His advice.
Jesus is, indeed, prescribing a course of action which does
not come naturally to us. Thankfully, as Christians, we have the power of the
Holy Spirit to help us during these challenging times. Unprovoked assault is
never pleasant and it does challenge us with thoughts of retaliation and
revenge. Sometimes our first response is for “pay back,” but we must resist and
refrain.
Jesus is telling us that the lifestyle of the kingdom of God
is more demanding than what the Law of Moses laid down. Jesus is literally
saying “Don’t retaliate at all!” Jesus
does not want us to harbor a spirit of resentment; if someone does you an
injury or puts you to inconvenience, show yourself master of the situation by
doing something to the perpetrator’s advantage. Pray for them. Love them. Offer them
forgiveness.
Romans
12:18-21, is pretty clear: “If
it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do
not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it
is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord. On the
contrary: ‘If
your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In
doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.’ Do
not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Jesus wanted his followers to have an unselfish attitude that
willingly follows the way of the cross instead of the attitude of protecting
one’s personal rights. They should entrust themselves to God who will one day
set all things right.
Jesus proposed a better way – the radical response of love. His standard was not an attack on the
necessity for justice. Rather, Jesus was presenting a practical, rational, and
holy way to deal with personal conflict and offense.
Yes, sometimes, the law must take precedence where the
perpetrator is arrested, fined, goes to jail/prison, or is put on probation and
monitored for some time. But, that is why we have Governments and authorities
to uphold such laws. The overall “attitude” is to rid ourselves of seeking
revenge or retaliation of any kind on our own.
By the way, Jesus did practice what he preached. In
fact, he led by example. Jesus literally turned the other cheek, handed over
His garments and walked the extra mile, even all the way up to Mount
Calvary to be crucified (Luke Chapters 22 and 23).
Jesus is literally calling us to make a U-turn and live a radically different
lifestyle. Agape love. We show unconditional
love for everyone including those who are evil. Following Jesus is not just a
modification of a worldly life, but an utterly new way to live. Will you
decide to be a Christian on Jesus' terms - not as other people are, not as
you want, but as He wills? Then practice a life that does not resist those who
are evil.